admin > 01-04-2025, 08:48 PM
Zitat:Dear xxxxxxx! You just can’t imagine HOW I’ve waited for this letter ofyours!I think this time time was passing so slowly that I just did not knowwhat to do! I had customers at work but I couldn’t give my all to thembecause I was thinking about your answer and I tried to guess what itwill be like…I’m glad that you have the thought that we can be more than friends. Itmeans that our relationship has a chance to develop and to grow insomething bigger.To start form the beginning the way we met was not ordinary.. for me atleast…it was totally new experience for me and I’m glad that it turnedout that way:) Is meeting new people through the internet usual for you?for me, totally not… Though I am happy that due to this global net Ifound such a friend like you. I like you a lot! and I enjoy every minutecommunicating with you no matter writing letters or talking on thephone. Don’t you think that from our first letter when we didn’t knowanything about each other w came to be rather close? Sometimes it evenscares me because I begin to think about our future I begin to imagineus living together. Our talking makes my life brighter, it lights mylife up. But when I come back home from the internet cafe; I feelvery lonely. I need someone by my side. I need a man who will care aboutme, who will support me and who of course will love me. It is veryimportant for a woman to have a man in real life who will be a lovingfather for their kids. I want to have kids form the person who I willlove and who love me. I think every woman in the world does want thateven those who care of their careers more than of their family lives.Remember that I told you that I was not jealous of those of my friendswho were married and who had happy families. Well, I was not lying. I’mfrankly happy for them. But I do not understand why I haven’t met aperson like that yet? Why I don’t have a caring husband and nice kids? Iknow that it is all because I have never met a man who would have hadtrue feelings for me.. and I do not want to marry a man who I do notlove. it is not right to create a family with the person who you haveno deep feelings for and to ruin each other’s lives. Do you agree?and what do you want from your life in this period? What do you wantform the relationships? Do you think you are ready to create a familyand to give a birth to children? As for me I think I am! I thinkchildren are the purpose of our lives. I think people usually come to athough that they want to have children when they realize that they havesomething to give to small persons. I know that I have and franklyspeaking I think that you do either. From time to time I’m looking atOlesya’s family (she lives with her husband and a wonderful child inSernur) and imagine myself at her place. I mean of course I do not wantto replace her in her family:) but I can imagine myself having my own, Iimagine how I will cook for my husband and my children and how well Iwill take care of them and to create comfort in our home. Anyways to doall that I dream of I need to have a man who will think the way I do.Just being curious tell me what you think of family life? what is idealfamily life for you? How does it look like?Today I’ve talked so much about my dreams… to tell the truth I do notwant to come back home. while sitting in the internet café andwriting letter to you and telling you all my thoughts I feel that youare close to me. But as soon a s I come home I feel the distance grows.The distance between us seems to so big. And I wish that we lived in oneand the same city so we could meet in the evenings and go to cafe;or movies and to talk about everything in the world! I think if we meton the street we would definitely notice each other and would become asgood friends as we are nowI wish I had computer at home so we could write letter to each othernon-stop. This way we would have a feeling that we are next to eachother:) unfortunately, that is just a dream and hardly ever it wouldcome true. and I want to ask you if you have the same feeling like Ido.. I mean the feeling that you miss something very important while nottalking to each other… miss a person who matters to you lot even morethan a true friend?... I do… Nadezhda
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:49 PM
Zitat:188.187.146.174 - Geo Information
IP Address 188.187.146.174
Host dynamicip-188-187-146-174.pppoe.yola.ertelecom.ru
Location RU RU, Russian Federation
City Yoshkar-ola, 45 424038
Organization CJSC Company ER-Telecom Yoshkar-Ola
ISP JSC ER-Telecom Holding
AS Number AS41786 JSC ER-Telecom Holding
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:49 PM
Zitat:Hello xxxxxxx,How was your day, dear?I’ve thought of what I wrote you in my last letter.. And I realized thatthe huge part of it was about my past, the history of my relationshipwith my grandmother and my childhood. Of course our past influences usbut present time is much more important. I hope you would agree tothatSo talking about present I need to say that I told about you about to mygood friends and they were very happy for me I have 4 very goodfriends. They are Olesya, Irina, Vlada, Inna. Olesya and Irina live inSernur right now. And Vlada lives in Moscow with her husband. Innalives in Nizhniy Novgorod. She works there. I can say that we arefriends form the very childhood. We met when we started to go to theelementary school and we made friends since then. I think that we arelucky to be still friends. Some people say that there is no truefriendship between women but I know form my own experience that thereis. Of course we sometimes argue but then we always find a way out ofany difficult situation. Olesya and Vlada are married and they have kidsand they are very happy with their husbands. As for us I meanIrina, Inna and me we are still looking for our men, for people who wewill be deeply in love with. We were never jealous of our marriedfriends. We were just happy that they found their happiness. And now weare looking for ours:) so when I told my friends that I seem to find aman who I like more than just a friend and who seems to be the kindthat I am looking for, my friends were extremely happy for me. I showedthem your picture and they tell that you are very nice and cute. Have Itold you that I think exactly the same? If not, I am telling you thisnow!By the way my mom knows that I’m talking to a man in the internet.before meeting you I preferred not to tell her about the men thatsurrounded me. It doesn’t mean that I dated every one who was around me…but I was looking at them and searching for right one for me.. but myheart was silent to all of them. And after a while since we startedtalking I realized that you are the man that I can tell my mom aboutbecause I want her to be glad for me as I met you. so that what I did.And it’s interesting for me if you anyone of your friends or relativesknows anything about me.. what they think about it if they do.. Wouldyou share?Has anything changed for you since we started talking? Or have you everhad a thought that something changed? I am asking because I have. Mineattitude towards men in general changed… it is a weird feeling. Asbefore started talking to you I was looking at men trying to find mylove in each of them…I thought that the right man for me is somewherearound and that I just do not see or notice him. And I have never hada thought that the person who I feel have deep feelings to can live notin my city and not even in my country. But now I accept this thought andI think that distance is not that of a big deal. If there is some kindof deep feelings between people they might to solve any problems ordifficulties that will appear. So after I talked to you I stoppedpractically completely looking at men that surround me like at ones whocan possibly have true love feelings for. They suddenly stoppedinteresting me. I think that it is all because I met you and you gotinterested me much more than the others. You know at the same time Idon’t want to hurry the events and I have only one dream. It is to knowevery part of you, to understand you well as possible. And before I willwrite other things about us that you might not share I prefer to stop.And you if you tell me that you want to be just friends and nothing moreI will accept that but I will be upset… Nadezhda
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:50 PM
Zitat:Hello xxxxxxxxxx!It is a nice surprise for me to see your answer. Rightnow we know practically nothing about each other, we are like openbooks for each other. And i‘m glad that I have possibility to know aperson from another country and to get to know how your life is.I think it is extremely interesting getting to know new people.As I’m sociable and communicative , I hope we’ll get along and we’ll find some commonpoints and a lot of topics to talk about.So... I’m 29 years old and I’m single and I have no kids.I live in a very small city it is called Kuyar. It’s morelike a village I can say. A lot of young people do not want to live invillages like min and they move to big cities like Moscow, St.xxxxxxxxxxsburg, Sochi, Ekaterinburg and others. I have not been toall of these cities but I’ve been to Moscow and St Petersburg and Icannot say that I want to live there. These cities are beautiful andhave a lot of interesting historical places but at the same time theyare huge… and people live there not noticing each other. And for myselfI want to have dear people and my friends around and I do not want tolive with people that do not notice me at all. That’s why I can say thatI like Kuyar for its itimate atmosphere of a small town. And what is thecity you live in like? How big is it? And do you want to stay there forthe rest of your life or you wouldn’t mind to move to another place? Asfor me I wouldn’t mind to move somewhere but I need at least one truefriend around and I think I can be happy in any place in the world. Asmy city is not big ,it is not easy to find a decent job. I think thatI am lucky as I found one. I’m a shop-assistant in the furniture store.I have a normal 8 hours working day for a Russian man. I work from 8o’clock in the morning till 5 o’clock in the evening and I have 1 hourof a lunch break usually from 12 to 1 o’clock in the afternoon. I likemy job in general but I’m not sure that I want to do that all my lifeand I night to try myself in other fields some time later.As any person in the world I have my family. Right now it consists onlyfrom my mom and me. we are happy family because we love each other andwe always support each other. My mom’s name is Aleftina, she is 59 yearsold and she doesn’t work right now as she is too old for that. she is onthe government pension. My dady left my mom when I was about 2 years oldand I haven’t seen him from that time. So actually I don’t remember himat all. My mom told me about how he was when they were young but sheherself hasn’t seen him since the time of a break-up. He seems todisappear somehow… I don’t really want to talk much about that as I donot understand why my father did that way and why I am turned out to beto blame in their break-up. I worried a lo about that a lot when I wasteenager but now I seem to get over that. What is your family story? Isyour family big or small? How do you get along? Do you have a lot ofrelatives in you city or live somewhere all by yourself? And do youvisit your relatives that are live far away from you? I’m asking so manyquestions about your family because I think that this information mightgive me the basic knowledge about you as all of us are children of ourparents and we are the “product” of our own family traditions. Forexample I do not drink or smoke and I can say that I have no bad habitsand it is all due to my mom. She was always an example to follow. I’have never seen her smoking or drinking alcohol. She could drink only aglass of Champaign or wine while celebrating big holidays or wheninviting a lot of friends over. Also when I was small my mom alwaysexplained to me how harmful for our health smoking cigarettes, drinkingalcohol and drugs are. So in my example the influence of my mom in mylife is huge and what is in your case? How your parents influenced yourlife?Oh, it is 9 o’clock in the evening already and the internet cafe; isabout to close. By the way computer with the internet is still aluxurious thing in our small town (it is different with big citites), somajority of population who need internet go to inernet cafe;. Wehave several of them. Can you imagine that took me an hour towrite this letter?I came to the internet cafe; when it was 8 ‘clockin the evening and it is 9 already. Time flies. It took me much longerthan I thought it would , it is probably because ihave to translateeverything I want to say in Russian into English and I want to say itright in English:) I don’t want us to have any misunderstandings becauseof he language barrier. So please if you don’t understand anything thatI wrote feel free to ask me, I won’t be offended and I’m open to answerany questions:)One more in conclusion I want to say that I’m glad that to see a letterfrom you in my mailbox and I hope you would like to continue writingletters.It would be very nice to get the answer from you soon and to startgetting to know you:)Nadezhda
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:51 PM
Zitat:188.187.148.7 - Geo Information
IP Address 188.187.148.7
Host dynamicip-188-187-148-7.pppoe.yola.ertelecom.ru
Location RU RU, Russian Federation
City Yoshkar-ola, 45 424038
Organization CJSC Company ER-Telecom Yoshkar-Ola
ISP JSC ER-Telecom Holding
AS Number AS41786 JSC ER-Telecom Holding
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:52 PM
Zitat:Hello, xxxxxxxxxx!I wanted to say good evening but then I thought that Idon’t know in what part of the day you will read my letter. and if youread it in the morning and I will great you with “good evening” itwill sound strange , won’t it?Well, that is not something that I’m supposed to start the letter I guess… anyways…I was glad to see a letter from you again and I’m glad that you decided to continue ourwriting letters.I would like that you knew me more and I also wish to know you better.My family is on the first place for me and it plays an very important role in my life.Second place takes up my job. My job is something that give me a chance to express myselfand of course to earn money for living and it helps me to be independent.I’m a shop-assistant in the furniture store.My job is not artistic, I’m not a designer of furniture i’m notmaking it. I just sell the items that other people created. Butanyways I don’t think that my job is no important. My job is to helppeople to create the comfort in their homes and to give them advicesif they ask for that. The store is not very big, but a lot of peoplein the city know it as we sell good and not expensive furniture.And not high price give us a lot of customers. They are all different andmy job is to find a key to each customer that step in our store. Thisis some kind of psychological work I think. And I like it all. It isvery easy for me to work with people. I enjoy the process of choosingfurniture and just talking to people. And what is your job related to?Do you work with people or somewhere in the office with the computer?Could you describe your duties for example or your every day work? Ihad a funny customer a few days ago. He wanted to buy bookshelves. Hedidn’t want to get the ordinary ones, they got to be special in someway. At the same time he didn’t know exactly what he wanted and hedidn’t have enough money to get the help of professional designer. Sohe was running arounf the sore explaining the size of the room and theplaces where the bed, the table and the sofa were, describing thecolor of the room and other details. And he needed my help, othershop-assistants came to look at that show:) and they were laughing atthat man’s manner explaining everything ! that was very funny! afterabout half an hour of the show he stopped and asked if I can adviseanything? I sowed him the shelves that were oval and he liked them.Yesterday he came with a box of sweets and told me that the shelvesthat I picked suited perfectly well in his room. I was very glad withhim and with the job done too I told you that my job takes thesecond place in my life and right now it is so. But to tell the truthI want it not to be more important than love. At this very moment Idon’t have man that I can fall in love with. And I was looking forthat kind of man very hard in Russia but unfortunately I haven’t metany. Don’t think that I’m very independent woman who doesn’t need aman. It’s not so. I need someone who will protect and support me andwho I can take care about. One of my friends had the same problems anda few years ago she met a nice man in the internet and after some timeof writing letters to each other she visited him and didn’t come back.They ended up marrying and she seems to be very happy. I’m emailingher form time to time and I see the joy that is in all of her letters.Till the latest time I thought that I was to find my love in Russiabut now I came to conclusion that it doesn’t matter which countrypeople are from if they understand each other and if they have commontopics to talk about. I have no experience talking to foreigner but Ilike it so far with you:) and let me know what do you think of it?Have you talked to a lot of different women from other countries? Ifyes, how was it? Was it difficult because of the differentmentalities? Or may be this just added peculiarity to thecommunication? For me personally it is very exciting talking to you,to a person that have totally different life and another way ofthinking though at the same time all the people no matter where theylive in Africa, Indonesia, India, Japan or Brasilia have a lot incommon: everybody dreams about true love, everybody needs to have atrue friend, everybody wants to be successful in something and so on…I can name a lot of things that are common for all people in theworld. So tell me if you are interested to know more about me afterreading this letter and I will be happy to do that. I like tellingabout my life if one wants to know about it, I’m not shy or nottalkative(I hope you have already noticed that:)) I can answer yourquestions if you have any and I still waiting the answers to mine:)Thanks for giving your time for reading my letters and writing theanswers. I appreciate it.Nadezhda
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:52 PM
Zitat:188.187.143.63 - Geo Information
IP Address 188.187.143.63
Host 188x187x143x63.static-business.kursk.ertelecom.ru
Location RU RU, Russian Federation
City Kursk, 41 305009
Organization CJSC Company ER-Telecom Yoshkar-Ola
ISP JSC ER-Telecom Holding
AS Number AS59713 JSC ER-Telecom Holding
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:53 PM
Zitat:Hello xxxxxxxxxx!Good time of the day!It is very pleasant to know that someone who live so far away wants toknow about me and about my life. I mean internet does incredible thingslike we would never get a chance even to start talking if there were nointernet. It seem s that due to internet the whole world unites andgradually becomes one huge country. I don’t know if it is good or badfor us people who live in this world but what I know for sure it is goodfor me personally because you and me began to write to each other:)I have now that many friends in other cities of Russia or abroad. I haveone friend who married foreign man and went to live to another country ,then I have a few friends who right now live in Moscow and St.xxxxxxxxxxsburg but most of my friends live here. And what aboutyour friends? Do all of them live next to you or do you have to go somedistance to see them and to spend some time together? I love spendingtime with my friends, they make my life brighter and easier and morefun. I wish I could spend more time with my friends but it is notpossible because fo the work and other responsibilities that I have.When I have free time (it is usually in the evenings) my friends and goto different entertainment places like movie theatre, theatre,cafe. I just love to watch movies in the movie theatre. I likedifferent movies starting from romantic comedies, dramas to adventuremovies and action ones. Watching movie in the movie theatre can’t becompared with watching it at home: the screen, the sound, theatmosphere- everything is so different! Most of my friends have the sameopinion so we usually got to movie theatre with a big company. Less ofmy friends like an understand classical theatre. To be more precise only2 of them really enjoy it. As for me I like to go to drama performancesbetter than to opera and ballet. I do not understand opera becausesingers sing in Italian and I do not know Italian at all and I can guesswhat is going on on the stage only by the actors’ movements.. and Ibelieve that is not enough to understand performance. Ballet dancing iseasy to feel as dancers express their feelings by movements but not bywords so their movements is more emotional and expressive then those ofopera singers. Anyways I prefer drama but I don’t go to the theatrethat often. Another alternative to go out with friends are differentcafes and bars. We prefer karaoke bars as there are more opportunitiesto entertain ourselves. And where do you usually go out? What are themost popular places in your city to spend some free time?My free time consists not only of going out with friends. I have somehobbies. For example I like to do jogging in the mornings. I try to jogevery day. I think it is on of the best ways to keep fit and I don’thave to spend any money for going to gym. Jogging in the summer is verypleasant if it is not raining. It’s getting harder in the winter whenit is cold, snowy and the wind is blowing. But even in winter I dojogging not when it is freezing but when the weather is not that cold:)I don’t really like any other sports… well, aerobics is kind of o’k. Ican watch only one type of sport games. That’s football. But I havenever played it:) that how I am with sports:) do you go to gym or playany sport? Maybe you did that when you were in school or college. WhenI was in school I did a lot of skiing during my PT class. I hated it butour PT teacher made us do skiing otherwise he wouldn’t give us goodgrades. I’ve never touched skies since the very time I graduated frohigh school. But I like skating. I can’t say that I do that excellentbut I enjoy skating on the ice-skating rink while good music is beingplayed.By the way about music! I can’t live without music at all:) I turn it onwhen I wake up. I go jogging with a player. There is always some kind ofradio station playing at work. And then I enjoy music going to concertsor to the bars in the evenings:) When I get ready to go to bed I listento some calm music. I can’t say that I like particular musical style. Ilike something form pop, rock, hip-hope and techno. It just depends onwhat I do. Tell me what are your musical preferences:)I think I asked you quite a lot of questions already:) that’s probablyenough for one letter:)))))) I hope you’ll answer them all:)))) and maybe tell something more about yourself! I would be glad to know more ofyou.I have to say good bye because the internet cafe that I’m writingform is closing again. And people who work here don not want to waittill I finish the letter and they give me signs that I got to leave…that kind of impolite of them..Next time I’ll try to come to the internet cafe earlier so I wouldhave a little more time to write to you:)Nadezhda
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:54 PM
Zitat:188.187.151.146 - Geo Information
IP Address 188.187.151.146
Host dynamicip-188-187-151-146.pppoe.yola.ertelecom.ru
Location RU RU, Russian Federation
City Yoshkar-ola, 45 424038
Organization CJSC Company ER-Telecom Yoshkar-Ola
ISP JSC ER-Telecom Holding
AS Number AS41786 JSC ER-Telecom Holding
admin > 01-04-2025, 08:55 PM
Zitat:Good time of the day to you xxxxxxxxxxx!How was your day? Mine was good. It was rather active. I should confessthat I skipped jogging today mornings as I wasn’t in the mood to workout. My morning started very calmly. I had a glass of juice and awonderful omelet with tomatoes, ham and cheese . I enjoyed not onlyeating it but cooking it as well by the way do you cook your breakfastyourself from time to time? Or do you prefer to have just a cup ofcoffee or a glass of juice and then you eat at lunch only? As for me itsometimes so happens that I drink only a glass of juice but then I feelstarving at far before lunch and I have some snacks before lunch andthen during the lunch I do not really eat anything… I know that it isnot good at all, so more often I try to cook good breakfast at home andeat it all only that way I feel like I have enough energy to work tillthe lunch and then at lunch eat a salad and a piece of chicken or beefwith rice or potatoes.. it’s interesting what do you usually have foryou lunch and then dinner? Do you have some kind of favorite food thatyou eat very often? as for me I do! I just love chicken with riceand boiled vegetables for lunch. Of course I don’t eat that every singleday but it happens oftenWell, I better stop talking about food as I came to the internetcafe; just after work and I haven’t had dinner yet. And I realizedright now that it is difficult to talk about food when you arestarving…Anyways today morning I felt ready to do a lot of work… and you know myfeeling that I would have lot to do didn’t deceive me. Today was verybusy day for me. there were so many customers today ! it’s justunbelievable, it seems that the half of the town decided to buysomething new in their house at one and the same time:) Thanks God I’mnot the only shop-assistant in the store other way I wouldn’t believe doall the work by myself… Actually I like when I’m busy at work and Ican’t stand sit doing nothing. It’s boring for me. From time to time ithappens that we practically have no customers then I try to dosomething useful fro myself. For example I read. Now at work I have abook in English. It is called “Pride and prejudice” by Jane Austen.I’ve started reading not that time ago but I like it so far. Reading inEnglish is not easy for me I often have to consult the dictionary but Ibelieve that this way I can make my English much better. Anyways todaywasn’t eh kind of day that I would have time to read… do thing like thathappen to you? I mean does it happens that you have nothing to do atwork? If it does what do you usually do to spend that time? Going backto reading I like to read historical books too. The history of Russia isextremely interesting especially I like the period of tsars andtsarinas, the period of developing arts and sciences… I would like tovisit some historical places that are as well known as Hermitage inSt.xxxxxxxxxxxsburg. May be it would sound weird that a modern woman isinterested in history but I think that the history of my country is apart of my history and it doesn’t matter that right now I live in asmall city where nothing huge ever happened… And do you know the historyof your country? I don’t mean in details… but at least in general? Doyou know how your country was created? And who did that? maybe you wouldgive a short historical note to me as I’m good in the history ofRussia and I’m very bad in history of other countries of the worldIt’s not possible to know everything.Not that long time ago I found another reason why I should know thehistory of Russia. It is connected with my future life. Before I thoughthat I want to marry only Russian man but now my mind changed and Iaccept the thing that sooner or later I might go to live to anothercountry if I meet that man that I will love. That would mean that mykids(that I’ll have in future) will grow up in another culture. But Iwill ant them to remember about their Russian roots and I will want themto know the history of their country where their mother was born andlived a big part of her life. I hope that the way how seriously I’mthinking about the future do not confuse you. As right now I’m at thatperiod of my life when I definitely want to have a family with the manwho I will love. I feel like I’m ready for that and I’m ready to give myall for the family.Oh by the way here is a funny thing. This letter I talked so much aboutI like history, historical books and historical places.. but the placewhere I live now is not historical at all… we have only one museum thattells about the history of Yoshkar-Ola but to tell the truth there isnothing to tell about:) isn’t it hilarious:) During the period of tsarsYoshkar-Ola was a territory of one landowner who lived in St/ Ptersburg andpractically never been to that land.. He just was sending people whotook money from poor peasants . Then during the times of Soviet Unionour city was a huge farm but this farm was totally controlled by thegovernment and all people worked not for themselves but for thegovernment. The city was not big at all, and after the collapse ofSoviet Union the city started to grow, land became controlled by peoplewho bought it from the government and since then our city began todevelop. Well, that’s the history of my native city:) and what is thehistory of yours?I would wait the answer in your next letter:) and not I’m going run homeand cook something to eat as I’m starving to death…. And I can thinkonly about food this very momentI hope you will excuse meTalk to you very soon!Nadezhda